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Nelson Mandela 23 sene haks\u0131z yere hapis yat\u0131p \u00e7\u0131kt\u0131\u011f\u0131nda \u00e7\u0131kt\u0131\u011f\u0131nda gazeteciler sormu\u015f: \u201cSizi haks\u0131z yere hapse atanlardan intikam alacak m\u0131s\u0131n\u0131z?\u201d Mandela ise \u201c\u0130ntikam almam i\u00e7in 23 sene harcamam laz\u0131m ve benim buna vaktim yok!\u201d diyerek affetme yolunu se\u00e7mi\u015f.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Kuran\u0131\nKerim de affetmeyi tavsiye eder. Biz m\u00fcsl\u00fcmanlar\u0131n en \u00e7ok yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z dualardan\nbirisi \u201cAllah\u2019\u0131m bana adaletinle de\u011fil merhametinle muamele et\u201d de\u011fil midir?\n\u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc bilirizki e\u011fer Allah bize sadece adaletiyle muamele etse her i\u015fledi\u011fimiz\ng\u00fcnahtan sonra cezas\u0131n\u0131 \u00e7ekmek zorunda kal\u0131rd\u0131k. O y\u00fczden Allah bizlere t\u00f6vbe\nkap\u0131s\u0131n\u0131 a\u00e7\u0131k b\u0131rakm\u0131\u015ft\u0131r ki ceza gelmeden \u00f6nce yanl\u0131\u015flar\u0131m\u0131zdan d\u00f6nelim.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Peygamberler\ntarihi de affetme hadisleri ile bezelidir. Hz. Muhammed (SAV) Mekke\u2019nin fethi\nsonras\u0131 kendisine t\u00fcrl\u00fc eziyetler yapan m\u00fc\u015frikleri ve Hz. Yusuf (AS) kendisini\nkuyuya atan karde\u015flerini nas\u0131l affetti\u011fini hepimiz biliriz. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Affetmek\nbir sanatt\u0131r ve evreleri vard\u0131r:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

  1. Sabretmek.<\/li>
  2. Cezaland\u0131rmamak.<\/li>
  3. Kar\u015f\u0131 taraf\u0131 su\u00e7lamamak hatta bahsetmemek.<\/li>
  4. \u00dczerini \u00f6rtmek.<\/li>
  5. Tamamen silmek.<\/li><\/ol>\n\n\n\n

    Affetmek\nhem \u015fah\u0131slar, hem topluluklar ve hem de \u00fclkeler aras\u0131 kal\u0131c\u0131 bar\u0131\u015f\u0131 sa\u011flar,\nsava\u015flar\u0131 \u00f6nler, dostluklar\u0131 peki\u015ftirir. Affetmeye \u00f6nce kendimizle ba\u015flayal\u0131m.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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